What adults need to know, and how they can help after shootings like Oxford High School
Dr. Arash Javanbakht, a psychiatrist and director of the Stress, Trauma and Anxiety Research clinic at Wayne State University, and Stephanie Hartwell, dean of the College of Liberal Arts and Sciences at Wayne State, spoke to the Detroit Free Press in the tragic wake of the Oxford High School shooting. Dr. Javanbakht and others stressed It is essential, after a school shooting, that parents and other adults control their emotions around their children to restore a feeling of calm and safety and limit anxiety. "In general, children, especially younger ones, do not have a good ability of threat detection or appraising the level of the danger. The most important thing is to control our own fear or negative emotions around kids — all kids," said Javanbakht. "Parents must show they're in control. For parents to create an atmosphere of safety is very important."
Dean Hartwell, who is a medical sociologist, has researched gun violence. On Tuesday, her daughter texted news of the shooting to her. "My kids were 8 and 5 when the Sandy Hook school shooting happened. And that was first graders. I was completely traumatized. It changes your perception of how safe the world is. So you start to question everything."